The victims deserve better than this faux sympathetic socially normed fakefest.
They deserve real respect and dignity.
That's not found in 9 hours of very special programming or in public proclamations of bullshit. It's found in personal remembrance and working to prevent the same thing from every happening again.
God bless the victims and their families but god damn all those who have felt the need to exploit and abuse 3,000 deaths.